Christmas House

Before we left for Ohio, Christmas hit our house. We spent most of the day Saturday setting up the tree, finding decorations, and listening to Christmas music. I was in disbelief that I am married to my best friend, and we could decorate our own place for Christmas. I hope it is something I never get used to.

Our Thanksgiving was wonderful. We played games almost all day, I read two books, we watched a lot of football and basketball, and ate our weight in Andes mints and apple pie. As much as I love Thanksgiving, I can't hep but be so excited for Christmas. I love this season, everything about it.

(p.s. can someone teach me how to take a decent picture?)

Winner

I used random number generator and Emma is the winner of the Aesthetic Image giveaway! Email me with your info.

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For those who didn't win, Aesthetic Image is offering a free lip or brow wax with any other waxing service when you tell her that you entered the giveaway - and they already have the lowest prices I have found in Utah valley.

Thanks to everyone who entered!

Break

I am currently in Ohio with Kevin's family for Thanksgiving break.

So far we have played a lot of board games, and had some adventures at the airport. I hope you all have a relaxing break, and a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Campus Date

Kevin is a supervisor for BYU EMS (emergency medical services) and happened to have a shift on Friday. That meant from 7-11 on a weekend night, we were stuck on campus, in case someone sprained their ankle, had a stroke, passed out, etc. Luckily no calls came that night.

We decided to make a date out of it. We had taco bell, admired my new nail color, and then watched Despicable Me in the Varsity Theater. Somehow Kevin even makes BYU campus on a Friday night fun.

Aesthetic Image Review

Last Monday I went to Aesthetic Image for my routine wax. I love that place, and I will never go anywhere else for a wax. Lindsay, the master esthetician is the most gentle, kind person ever and she makes the experience as pleasant as it can possibly be. I went before my wedding and she made me feel so calm. She is also so easy to talk to, and does such a thorough job every time.

I love her, and Aesthetic Image. She now has two locations - one in Orem and one in Draper, so everyone in Utah valley is in close proximity to her.

To start off your holidays right, she is offering a $50 gift certificate to one lucky lady, and for those who don't win she is offering a free eyebrow or lip wax with any other waxing service when you tell her that Mandy sent you. I realize that not everyone is in the market for a wax, so even if you aren't, the gift certificate will make an awesome gift for the holidays, or for a wedding shower.

To enter, visit Aesthetic Image and leave a comment below. A winner will be drawn on Friday.

(p.s if you have a service you would like me to review please email me)

Christmas List 2

Kevin wasn't really pleased with everything on my last Christmas list and asked me for another round. He told me that Home Decor is what we would buy anyway. and that he needs to really get me something I wouldn't buy for myself otherwise.

I love him.

Here's what is on the rest of my Christmas list:

These Toms

Perfect iPhone case

Gorgeous boots


Bag for my gear (My last one was ruined on our honeymoon with nail polish)

Gloves just like Winnie Gekko's at the end of Wall Street

I know I complain about it at times, but having my birthday, Christmas, and graduation all in the same month has its perks.

Proposal

Someone asked me on my formspring how Kevin proposed. I love thinking about that day.

It happened to be Kevin's birthday - March 19. That shows the kind of person Kevin is. Instead of wanting all of the attention that day, he decided the best gift he could receive was me saying yes to marrying him. He's pretty sweet like that.

We went on a date which I planned for his birthday, and I planned on spending the rest of the night cuddling in the fort I built for his birthday. After watching some of March Madness in our sweats, Kevin asked if we could go to "our spot" at the top of Provo. I was hesitant because it was cold, and I did not feel like going for a drive. But he asked that we do it as a special birthday request.

We drove up there, and I am not even joking on the car ride there Beyonce's "Single Ladies" came on. I started laughing because I was anxious to be engaged by this point and I kept singing, "If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it." Now that I look back on it he was laughing very nervously.

We pulled into our spot, a gorgeous place in the mountains overlooking Utah Valley. The entire valley was lit up with lights and it was so beautiful. We pulled a blanket out of my car and laid down on the hood of the car, looking at the stars. It really looked like we were in between two sets of stars. The ones above our heads, and the ones below us in the valley.

Then Kevin started telling me all of the things he is so excited to do in this life. He talked about details like going to the hospital with me and listening to our baby's heartbeat, brushing our little girls hair when they get out of the tub, and taking long walks together when we are old. I listened to him so intently as he got emotional and told me that all he wanted for the rest of his life was to be with me. We got off the hood of the car to hug, and then he knelt down and pulled a ring out of the pocket of his sweatpants. Then he asked me with tear-filled eyes if I would marry him.

I was overwhelmed with emotion. I started laughing and crying at the same time, and he slid the ring over my finger and then he spun me around. After a couple of minutes he said, "Is that a yes?" We both started laughing hysterically (honestly we probably looked crazy to anyone who may have seen) and I said yes of course it is a yes.

It was simple, and private, and not forced at all. It was exactly the way I wanted to be proposed to. We weren't dressed up, we hadn't gone on an elaborate date, and there were no roses or hot air balloons or easter bunny costumes. It was just us. I felt like there was nothing more important in the world that was happening at that time than the tiny spot in the world where Kevin proposed between the stars.

And I still feel that way.

p.s. UNREAL. Salt Lake's Groupon is $25 for $50 at American Apparel.

Fears

I used to be afraid of a lot of things. Not really unrealistic fears like alligators, which I would be afraid of if I lived in say, Florida. And not really the fear of growing old alone, because first of all I didn't and second of all I don't mind being alone as long as I am not lonely.

I had fears instead about being kidnapped, and gas prices, and politics and communism. I had fears that I would be forced to do things I didn't want to do, and that I wouldn't live long enough to fulfill my dreams. I had fears of evil finding its way into my life, and fears of losing myself.

But now I feel like Macaulay Culkin on Home Alone when he runs out to the streets yelling, "I'm not afraid anymore!" Because that is me now.

I don't know when I stopped being so afraid, but I know who it is who released me from my fears. Thank you Kevin, for freeing me from fear and for helping me believe that courage stems from being afraid, not from being brave.

Courage has to start somewhere.

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Wedding Photos

Allison recently posted more pictures from our wedding. Her style is so clean and natural, I love every one of the photos. Somehow she manages to have you pose without looking like you are posing. We were laughing and so happy our whole wedding day, and I didn't feel interrupted at all by having her there taking our picture. At one point she said, "Okay, you two are lovebirds!" We laughed at that too, because it is true.

I feel so blessed to have had a photographer who captured perfectly the most important day of our lives. Thank you Allison!

(Also, after I get the full disk of images I will share even more. There are so many gorgeous shots).

Go here to see more.

Kate

Kevin and I talk about names a lot, not only because we plan on having a dozen children (more or less) and names are a good way to argue about something that doesn't matter yet, but also because we both have names and like to think about what else we could be called.

Mandy. Not Amanda. It is simple and some people say it is cute, but I think because of Mandy Moore and too many horror movies, (as well as a plethora of gas station attendants) my name has been a little cheapened. I also was tragically not given a middle name (bring it up with my parents). I told Kevin we need to name our children names that will guarantee them a romantic lifestyle. His last name is French (Voisin) so if they are living in America they at least will be guaranteed a romantic last name, which means even if we decide on something terrible they will have some hope.

Kevin asked me what I would name myself if I could, and with a lot of thought I decided on the name Kate. Not Katie or Katherine, just Kate. I think the name Kate is simple and romantic and the last name really takes center stage on a name like Kate, making it timeless. Kevin thought it was a boring choice, but I happen to admire a lot of Kate's.

For example:

Kate Towers

Kate Powers

Kate Nash

Kate Spade

And I know there are more, that I just haven't thought about.

In case you were wondering, Kevin chose the name Jimmer. Shocker.

I still love him.

What would you name yourself? It is a much different process than naming a child.

photo via the fabulous kate

Tweets

I had twitter for a whole two days. I guess I thought that my life was pretty interesting and I would have lots of cool things to tweet about. Like, "Just ran into David Archuleta and he told me I am pretty." Or, "Recently signed my debut album - rock on!" But to be honest, it was more like, "Been sitting at my desk at work for the past six hours writing a press release about the HCG hormone in men and women, and how their bodies respond ..." And frankly, I don't think anyone really cares about that. I mean, I don't even really care about that.

But when I deleted my twitter Kevin was disappointed. He told me he looked forward to my "tweets" :) so I told him I would still send him mini-tweets throughout the day. So far they have been, "What did the mechanic say?" And, "Can you vacuum later tonight?" And he doesn't love these kinds of tweets for some reason.

So for all of you - what value do you find in twitter? Am I missing something?

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Office Space

Office Space by Mandalady on Polyvore.com

My office is moving to a new location and the re-modeling is currently underway. My boss said I could decorate my new office "any way I want." I jokingly asked him if I could hang up my Kiss poster (which doesn't exist) and he replied, "Yeah if that's what you want to do."

I designed this board to show to him, and while I doubt he will love it and let me go for it, I think he will be impressed with my lack of Kiss posters and renovating spirit.

Life Changer

Dry Shampoo. I used to think it was totally gross, but now I am a believer. I got it at Sally's for $7.00 and the girl working there told me not to waste my money on another kind because this kind works the best. I can go sometimes 2 days longer between washing (don't worry I still shower). My hair is healthier and is growing even longer because I don't have to blow dry it as much.

Honestly, I just couldn't keep it to myself anymore. Please buy it.

This November 8th

I wore my yellow tights to school,

my navy dress as well.

Red lipstick flared off my small lips

And dabbed perfume for smell.

My backpack jostled as I walked

It kind of made me glad

And the bells chimed out above my head

The tones mixed bright and sad.

A mother walking with her child

Passed me on the street,

I loved the way his small legs moved

I loved his tiny feet.

And then I got to class on time

Sat down right at the bell.

I felt so glad to be on this earth,

and that's my show and tell.

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