Two weeks I went to Vegas for the weekend with friends. We've planning the trip forever. With two of us in Phoenix (me and Liz) and most of our friends still in Utah, Vegas was the perfect halfway point. Only three of us could make it this time, but hopefully next trip the others can join in!

Stacey and Tia are seriously the best.We agreed on our itinerary the whole time, doing a lot of pool lounging, shopping, and eating. We shared a $12 ($12!!?) shake at Serendipity and then later met my dad at the Bellagio. He had clients in town for a conference and texted me later, saying that our shake was a bargain compared to the $300 he had to throw down for their 8 drinks.

There's nothing like being with your old friends. The same girls I had sleepovers with at age 11 I'm still having sleepovers with and I love it. Highlights include listening to Stacey Facetime her dog Oakley (hilarious), Tia's "voice", H & M at Caesar's Palace, them trying to get tan at the pool while I did everything I could to cover up, pedicures at a creepy place (mine chipped 2 seconds later, awesome) and trying to sleep in the same bed as Tia while she texted all night. Oh - and this gem of a picture. The poor old lady struggled so bad to take it that when she asked if it looked alright I just said, "Yeah! Perfect!" Lesson learned.

Until next time Vegas. 

P.s. thank you so much for your kind comments and texts and calls following the post about my accident. I don't know how I got so lucky to have such good friends but I do. It means more than you know.


Cyclical Existence

Three weeks ago I got in a car accident. I was completely stationary on the freeway, getting on to another ramp that was backed up. Someone hit me from behind. Police estimate he was going 60 mph. 

I haven't really known how to share it - or really anything since then. It's still difficult for me to talk about it. I went to the hospital by ambulance and, after several tests and x-rays I was sent home. It really was a miracle. I spent almost a week in bed. People asked what it felt like and all I could say was, "It felt like someone ran over me with their car." Because that's kind of what happened. I was more bruised and swollen and hurt than I had ever been because of a stranger's mistake.

But there were kind people who helped. The woman who came to my door right after I was hit. I had just regained consciousness and I thought I was dying - to be more specific, I thought I was suffocating to death. The impact along with the airbags and my unconsciousness made me hyperventilate. I thought I would die alone on the side of the freeway until she came to me. She reassured me. She called my dad, his was the only number I could remember. I don't even know her name, but I will love her forever. The paramedic in the ambulance with me told me jokes and called my husband. He told the doctors that awaited my arrival in the hospital that I was a "Cool patient," and came back later to check on me after bringing in another a few hours later. The nurse who took care of me was named Jessica. I cried, out of pain but mostly fear and told her that is my sister's name. She responded with, "It's a good name," gripping my hand. 

Our friend Chris brought Kev to the hospital and waited with us all night, dropping everything else he may have needed to do. Kevin took time off school to help me with basic needs like sitting up in bed, and monitoring my medications. My parents came to take care of me, so that he could return to his studies. Over the following days and weeks I have received meals, visits, flowers, cards, prayers from so many people. I feel like I don't have the grace to sincerely thank everyone who made this traumatic experience bearable.

My heart has been broken by the tragedies this past week in Boston and Texas. I share this personal experience not to receive more support, but to reaffirm that people are good. It is easy to get cynical about the world we live in, but I know that there is still more good than there is bad. For the most part, we are a kind people. Even as strangers, we lend a hand to those who are suffering. We may not be perfect in our dealings with one another, and occasionally we make mistakes but those faults do not diminish our humanity.

There is still suffering left to be had. But if I have learned anything from this experience, it is that God is watching over us and that we have got to do His work by helping each other. We never know the burden another is bearing, or the pain of loss they might experience. Sometimes we are the ones that need service but more often we are the ones who must give it. That is the beautiful, cyclical nature of this existence of ours. And more than ever, I am grateful to be a part of it.